
2O SIMPLE WAYS OF HOW TO IDENTIFY A MAN WHO HAS LOST HIS DIGNITY!
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Avoid walking with such undignified men if you want to succeed in life as a man and avoid relating with these kind of men if you value yourself as a woman!
Men of high moral standards and high values of dignity for both themselves and the society that they live in will find it of inconvenience to borrow money from a woman in any given way. Men of dignity will hardly borrow money from a woman. A man of good dignity understands that once a man starts borrowing money from a woman, then that is a sure sign of confusion setting in and reversed roles rising up. Avoid borrowing money from any woman if you want to maintain your dignity in the society as a man. Unless within the marriage setup, a man who is habitually bent on borrowing money from a woman can be safely categorized as not biblical, nonspiritual, unfaithful, immoral, incapable, unfriendly, undignified and outwardly unacceptable. Never borrow money from any woman if you want to maintain or regain your dignity as a man.
Below is a far fetched example from the bible of a sad yet God true story in Nehemiah 5: 1-5
And there was a great outcry of the people and their wives against their Jewish brethren.
For there were those who said, “We, our sons, and our daughters are many; therefore let us get grain, that we may eat and live.”
There were also some who said, “We have mortgaged our lands and vineyards and houses, that we might buy grain because of the famine.”
There were also those who said, “We have borrowed money for the king’s tax on our lands and vineyards.
Yet now our flesh is as the flesh of our brethren, our children as their children; and indeed we are forcing our sons and our daughters to be slaves, and some of our daughters have been brought into slavery. It is not in our power to redeem them, for other men have our lands and vineyards.”
These men in Nehemiah times struggled through financially to the point of detesting the thoughtless idea of borrowing money from their women who were into forced labour and slavery. They were forced to the point of crying out loudly about it.
A man who is bent on borrowing money from women or any woman for that matter is walking on cursed grounds. A man who habitually borrows money from women is not termed as a biblical brethren in today’s society.
Following on this story in Nehemiah 5, we read on Nehemiah’s unwavering stand regarding this entire problem, “Then I said, “What you are doing is not good. Should you not walk in the fear of our God because of the reproach of the nations, our enemies?..” Two Jewish nations were fighting and among those who were affected were the women. All the while that these two Jewish nations were fighting, the women of the victim nations were mostly affected because they had to go to work for their masters as slaves with their daughters all in exchange that the men from the victim nations could get grain to eat and live! This led to these Jewish men to suffer a reproach from their own land though they were forced into this cruel measure..
However, this bible story has a happy ending, in that, after much intervention and faithful prayers from the humble servant of God Nehemiah, help came and order was restored. It takes great humility to pray for others!
Nehemiah 5;12-13
So they said, “We will restore it, and will require nothing from them; we will do as you say.” Then I called the priests, and required an oath from them that they would do according to this promise.
Then I shook out the fold of my garment and said, “So may God shake out each man from his house, and from his property, who does not perform this promise. Even thus may he be shaken out and emptied.” And all the assembly said, “Amen!” and praised the LORD. Then the people did according to this promise.
As a man, stop borrowing money from women no matter what the odds are, because by doing so you will be walking out of God’s order and God’s purpose right into cursed grounds.
Stay focused on God’s plan as the man and learn to depend on God for all you needs including all your financial needs as well. It is up to God to decide how He is going to get you out of your financial tragedies and send whichever means of support you really need to help you yield to your full God ordained potential as a man created in God’s image.
It is the woman who was a borrowed rib from the man because in this order the man was given the divine ability to love the woman as his own because she was gotten from his own rib and live a blessed life through marriage and not the other wrong way round. God’s plan works all the time and is always relevant in these harsh and hard economic times!
God Is faithful and He is still faithful even today!!